September 4, 2022
So many women have the excuse of “well I don’t have a reason!” I’m sorry, did someone say you need a reason to feel good about yourself? Is there a reason that you should only indulge and treat yourself to this experience if it’s benefiting someone else? I vote no. No you don’t need a reason, and no no no there’s no reason you shouldn’t be doing this for YOURSELF! Of course an album or prints make the most amazing wedding, anniversary or birthday gift. Let’s be real, what partner wouldn’t want to fawn over an album of you? But lets take a moment to consider the reasons that booking a boudoir session is for you.
Confidence building. Number one reason will always be because it is a confidence building experience. Granted, you will walk in feeling unsure and uncomfortable, but I promise you will walk out feeling absolutely amazing.
To treat yourself. How often are you going out of your way to do something for yourself? If you have a job, or kids, or family, or anything at all going on, I know you’re not spending time to treat yourself. Showing yourself and your body that you love it and appreciate it, is so important.
To take a step outside of your comfort zone. I truly believe that all of the best moments happen when you take a step outside of your comfort zone. You are the only thing holding you back from taking that step. I promise you, it is so worth it.
To prove to your biggest critic that you have always been worth it. Maybe you have people that have told you not to feel good about yourself in the past, but I’m not talking about them. I’m talking about you. Do you see a pattern here? We need to break the cycle of media convincing women that they need to look one way to be good enough or be worth something.
And don’t get me wrong, I adore my bridal boudoir shoots, and my birthday present shoots. I am obsessed with helping someone make their partner’s dreams come true. And knowing that the person that loves them more than anyone is going to open that album and experience the feeling of pure awe, is the most amazing feeling.
You may still feel like you’re not good enough , or maybe you feel like you don’t deserve to treat yourself with no reason. Am I right? But the reality is, you don’t need a reason. You never actually needed a reason. Okay, yes, it is an amazing gift. But, don’t stop yourself from booking or even inquiring because you don’t have a reason. You are the reason. Everyone deserves a moment to shine, and this is your moment.
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